Dr. Sosamma Joyan (née Thomas) Mathew passed away peacefully on Saturday, September 9th, 2023 at the Credit Valley Hospital, Mississauga, Ontario, Canada.
She will be lovingly remembered by her soul mate, Rev. Dr. John Mathew and by our cherished son, Bram Thomas Mathew.
Joyan was the eldest beloved daughter of Kalayanasseril C.T. & Lucy Thomas (Ayroor) of Singapore, treasured sister of Shirley (late Rajan), Singapore, Latha (Priantha), Sri Lanka, Laly (Kunju), Reggie (Ruby) and Biju (Reni) of Singapore.
Joyan and John met at a national ecumenical conference during her studies at Lady Hardinge Medical College, New Delhi. In 1974, they were married at the Singapore Mar Thoma Church and moved to Canada.
Following her postgraduate studies at Queen’s University, she served Kingston and Sudbury hospitals. She was a caring friend to many nieces and nephews. She enjoyed her travels around the globe. Kind, gentle, loving and held dear to many, she was known for her sweet nature. She lavished affection and deep friendship.
Joyan sang in the church choir for decades; she was president of Place IV Ladies Club, enjoyed music, gardening, loved entertaining guests, liked watching movies and home improvement as well as cooking shows. She demonstrated a deep desire to serve others with her undaunted spirit, generous compassion, ethical integrity, spiritual maturity and self-effacing wisdom. She inspired her colleagues by her faithful sense of calling and example to give always their best.
Our family would like to express our deepest gratitude to Joyan’s lifelong friends. As well, we would like to thank the wonderful nurses and physicians at the Credit Valley Hospital Renal Care Centre for their kindness, empathy, and excellent care.
Cremation has taken place.
A celebration of Joyan’s life, led by the Rev. Canon Susan Climo, will be held at the Church of the Holy Spirit of Peace, 1170 Tynegrove Rd, Mississauga, ON, L4W 3B2 at 11:00am on Saturday, October 28, 2023 with reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to food banks in your community.
I always saw her in pictures.a very charming and smily lady.. sending love for her. May she rest in Peace.
My thoughts and prayers for Mr. John and Bram Mathew.
Love from Pakistan (UAE)
So sorry, John. A comment that has always stuck with me is that the depth of pain we feel at the death of a loved will be transformed into cherished and comforting memories.
I have spoken only once to Joyan over phone from India.. She came across as a kind,, caring and well- organized person. I wanted to pursue a course in Counseling and she was kind enough to spend time with me and advise me on it. Well, actually, she put in some sense and direction in my mind. Apart from this I had a grear respect for her as the Most Rev Dr. John Mathew would speak highly of her. Prayers for Rev John Mathew and Bram. May God be with you and her beloved family, comfort you and strengthen you. May God grant Joyan eternal rest.
Joyan was a clever physician and will be missed by many and fondly remembers by many. My thoughts go to her husband the Reverend and Bram Mathew. May she rest in peace
I am fortunate that I could meet Joyanamamma in 2019. She was very happy to see me. May God strengthen and comfort Johnychayen and Bram.Sending my love and prayers for Johnychayan and Bram
I have known her, John and Brahms for the last fifteen years or so. She was the most gentle and kind person I have met. Always helpful and friendly, she will be sorely missed. May her soul rest in peace. May God grant the family to bear thee loss.
So sorry to hear the sad demise of Joyan! Though she had been suffering for sometime but always cheerful. I have great memories of working with her on Place IV Ladies Cub Board – a lady with lot of patience and kind demeanour ..
Our heartfelt condolences for Reverend John and Bram
Dave and Sheshi Sarin
Will always remember the first thanksgiving in Sudbury Canada and the wonderful feast we had. Our condolences may she rest in peace.
Dr. Joyan, she’s my aunt (dad’s brother’s wife) It’s very difficult to express how much she means to me.
In our experience, we’re fortunate enough to have such a nice, kind hearted, genuine and generous person.
She was a great listener and spoke only with thoughtful and kind words around her.
Being a doctor we could approach and clarify our health related questions. She was a good counsellor. It was a great relief and comfort talking with her.
John uncle and Bram,
We’re deeply sorry for your loss, my heart aches for you during this difficult time. Joyan aunt, she was a great, amazing human who touched of many.
I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through, but you’re not alone.
Our sincere condolences, prayers and unwavering support. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage and lots of love and prayers at this sorrow.
My heart goes out to you both at this time.
Lots of love and prayers.Dr. Joyan, she’s my aunt (dad’s brother’s wife) It’s very difficult to express how much she means to me.
In our experience, we’re fortunate enough to have such a nice, kind hearted, genuine and generous person.
She was a great listener and spoke only with thoughtful and kind words around her.
Being a doctor we could approach and clarify our health related questions. She was a good counsellor. It was a great relief and comfort talking with her.
John uncle and Bram,
We’re deeply sorry for your loss, my heart aches for you during this difficult time. Joyan aunt, she was a great, amazing human who touched of many.
I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through, but you’re not alone.
Our sincere condolences, prayers and unwavering support. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage and lots of love and prayers at this sorrow.
My heart goes out to you both at this time.
Lots of love and prayers.
So sorry to hear this! Please accept our heartfelt condolences! May Joyan rest in peace and rise in glory! And may both John and Bram be filled with peace and hope.
My condolences to John and Bram. I met Joyan and John back in 2009 , I will always remember Joyan as positive and patient family oriented person. John, I know I can’t make your pain go away, but I want you to know I am here for any support you may need.
Dear Friends/Family: We immensely appreciate your thoughts and prayers – these are tough days for us – might be tougher without your blessings. J & Bram